Monday, May 12, 2014

If you are OK, You are not OK something wrong!



 

I would like to tell a story from an Indian classic. It goes like this…..
There was a hermit in India. He was very pious and he always adored God in different way. He never hurt any one by deed, word or by mind. He always worshiped and roamed along villages. Seeing his faith and righteousness all villagers used to provide everything what he wanted. But as he had been very righteous, he would not accept anything more than what he needed for his existence. God had also been very happy seeing his pious and faith.  Gradually people began to respect him like anything. He understood that he was the biggest spiritual man in the world. He began to contemplate this thought in his mind. One day he decided to ask God to know whether he was his best devotee. He met God in a vision and asked his doubt. God answered with a smile “My best devotee is there living at the gate of one particular village.” Hearing this he wondered and decided to meet that devotee. He started to that village gate and reached the specific house God mentioned.
 It was a farmer’s house. He inquired about the man of the house. The lady answered that he had gone to farm to plough the field. Hermit waited there till the farmer returned. In the evening the farmer came back with his bullocks, tied them in their stable and entered home. He prayed, “Thanks God you provided a good day, protected us.” Then he turned to the guest who was waiting him. The guest, the hermit, asked about his way of worship, the things he did every day and the spiritual knowledge he posses and all. He had nothing in his hand as answers for hermit’s question to satisfy him. He answered that God was there who provided him everyday; he worked up to his capacity; no scriptures or spiritual routines he knows; he prayed twice in a day, immediately after got up and after returned home. Having heard this hermit surprised. He returned and met God again and asked what had the farmer been doing so specific to please God so much. Only twice he remembered God in a day, nothing else. God smiled and gave him an assignment to round that village with a pot full of oil on his head. One condition was there, not to spill even a drop of oil from the pot. He went around the village with pot full of oil on his head with utmost care and came back to God. God smiled again, hermit couldn’t understand. God asked the hermit how many time he remembered him while he was going round the village. Not even a single time, he concentrated on the pot in order to balance it in such a way that no drop of oil would spill out.
Hermit could understand the fault, but he argued that the farmer was living for himself and for his family. But he was solely living for God that were the substantial difference. God answered that were the substantial difference. God continued, that farmer’s devotion was for the sake of the devotion towards him, but hermit’s devotion gradually became for the sake of becoming the 'best' spiritual man(to compare with others), so the thought came that he was the best, none else . But in the case of farmer he didn’t even thought about a comparison to make, because his sole purpose was to please him, to worship him with his capacity.
Then hermit was advised not to compare with others’ spiritual grade, comparing with others’ spirituality was not coming under the devotion, worship or spirituality.
Look in to Bible there is a good example , Luke 18: 10-14
10 “Two men went up into the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector.
11 The Pharisee, standing by himself, prayed1  thus: ‘God, I thank you that I am not like other men, extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even like this tax collector.
12  I fast twice a week; I give tithes of all that I get.’
13 But the tax collector, standing far off, would not even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’
14 I tell you, this man went down to his house justified, rather than the other. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but the one who humbles himself will be exalted.”

Personal growth is not possible comparing or pointing to others qualities. They have their own we have our own. Concentrate to what we have. Whenever we begin to think the other person is not so………….. Or I am the better …….., there the paralysis begins, not the growth. What we need is, finding out the short comings we face in our life, means what we or I don’t have, that is the way to prosperity. Not ostentatious performance.

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